WHY ??

hey.

I have one student was born with no fingers. yes, tiada jari, katanya mmg dari kecik lagi mcm tu.

u know what... she never asks the question like,

''WHY do I have no fingers?''

the question she asks is,

''WHAT can i do with my hand without fingers?''

this is so amazing, with no fingers she still can write, she still can draw and anything, like other students.

''ALMOST ANYTHING OK'' yes, kita semua patut berbangga dengan beliau. =')

tapi i bukan nak cerita pasal beliau, itu cuma set induksi, atau pun permulaan atau pun sekadar pengenalan. faham kan? kalau tak faham x apa, teruskan membaca. 

ok next,

ladies and gentleman,

when tragedy strikes, or when we lose everything, or when a lover walks out on us, the question we usually ask is ''WHY?''

''WHY me?''

''WHY now?''

''WHY not everyone else?''

''WHY did he/she leave me for a someone like her/him? 

WHY not me?'' 

always kan?? mmg selalu kita tanya kenapa? kenapa? kenapa? kita tu termasuklah diri sniri ni. hehe. yes, including me. 

ok ladies... ok gentleman.......

asking WHY questions can send us crazy. mmg la bukannya betol2 gila, tp crazy kat sini bawa maksud mcm u dh x bole pikir dh mana satu baik utk u, mana satu langsung x mendtgkan kebaikan utk diri u sendiri. 

atau erti kata lain, x bole berfikir secara rasional. haa kan lebih ringkas dan padat. 

Often, there is no answer to ''WHY?''

or it doesn't matter why!

u know what......

effective people ask ''WHAT?'' questions..

''WHAT am I going to do about it?''

''WHAT do I learn from this?''

when the situation is really desperate, they ask.

''WHAT can I do, just in the next 24 hours, to make things better?''

nak jadi effective people tak? kalau nak jom transform, jgn asyik dgn ''WHY'' ja. try tukar pulak. banyak lagi kn 'wh' questions bole guna. ;B

tapi kalau anda semua dalam situasi mcm ni, which is your rabbit refuse to eat the carrot, 

u can use ''WHY'' questions. hehehe. 

p/s : saya harap lelaki-lelaki hensem,perempuan-perempuan cantik, semua yang membaca kat luar sana tak kisah saya mencampuradukkan bahasa pertama dan bahasa kedua saya menjadi satu entri. hihi. ;)

assalamualaikum.

-pen off-

00:20 pm